No. Child support and parenting time are separate court orders in Colorado, and unpaid support does not give you the right to withhold court-ordered time. The reverse is also true: a parent whose parenting time is being denied cannot stop paying support in response.
Each problem has its own enforcement track, and using the wrong one can put you, not the other parent, in front of an unhappy judge. Safety concerns are the one situation that follows a different path, and that path still runs through the court.
Why are child support and parenting time legally separate?
Colorado’s parenting time enforcement statute draws the line expressly: when resolving a parenting time dispute, the court must separate the issues of child support and parenting time and cannot condition child support upon parenting time. C.R.S. § 14-10-129.5. [1]
The logic is child-centered. Support money belongs to the child’s needs, and time with each parent serves the child’s relationships, so the law refuses to let parents trade one against the other. Your Colorado parenting time orders stay fully enforceable even when the support account is behind.
Myth vs. fact, in one pass:
- Myth: “No payment, no visits.” Fact: Withholding time over money violates the parenting time order and exposes you to enforcement remedies.
- Myth: “If I can’t see my kids, I don’t owe support.” Fact: The support obligation continues, and unpaid amounts keep accruing against you.
- Myth: “The court will sort out both together.” Fact: Each order is enforced on its own track, with its own motion and remedies.
What can you do about unpaid child support?
Colorado gives unpaid support real teeth. Under C.R.S. § 14-10-122, each installment becomes a final money judgment when it is due and unpaid, and past-due support accrues interest. [2] You do not have to wait for the balance to grow before acting.
Colorado Child Support Services can enforce administratively through tools like income assignment, tax refund intercepts, and license suspension. [3] Court remedies, including contempt, are also available, [4] and our guide to enforcing unpaid child support walks through when each option makes sense.
What can you do when parenting time is denied?
File a verified motion concerning parenting time disputes under C.R.S. § 14-10-129.5, using court form JDF 1418. [5] The court must review the motion within 35 days and either deny it, set a hearing, or order the parents to mediation.
If the court finds a violation, remedies can include makeup parenting time, additional terms and conditions, parental education or family counseling at the noncomplying parent’s expense, a bond, or contempt. The statute also directs the court to order the noncomplying parent to pay the other parent’s attorney fees and costs for the motion.
| Your problem | The right tool | What the court can order |
|---|---|---|
| The other parent is not paying support | CSS enforcement or a court motion on the support judgment | Income assignment, intercepts, license suspension, judgment collection, contempt |
| The other parent is denying your parenting time | Verified motion under C.R.S. § 14-10-129.5 (JDF 1418) | Makeup parenting time, conditions, counseling, bond, fees, contempt |
What if the child is unsafe with the other parent?
Safety is the exception, and it is not self-help. If you believe your child faces imminent physical or emotional danger during parenting time, Colorado law provides a motion to restrict parenting time, which the court must hear within 14 days while interim time is supervised. Our page on emergency custody orders in Colorado explains that process and the evidence it demands.
Call 911 if your child is in immediate danger, and a civil protection order may also be available. Simply stopping exchanges without a court order, even with sincere concerns, can be treated as a violation, so get the safety issue in front of a judge quickly.
Can you stop paying child support if visits are denied?
No. The support obligation runs to the child, not to the other parent’s good behavior, so denied visits do not pause it. Every missed payment becomes its own judgment against you and keeps collecting interest while the dispute plays out.
Paying on time while you enforce your parenting time also protects your credibility. The parent who followed both orders walks into the hearing in the stronger position.
What evidence should you preserve?
- Payment records. Family Support Registry statements, bank records, and any direct-payment receipts.
- A parenting time log. Dates, times, and what happened at each scheduled exchange, written down the same day.
- Communications. Texts, emails, and co-parenting app messages about payments and exchanges, kept complete and unedited.
- Witness information. Anyone present at denied exchanges, such as a relative or the supervisor at a neutral exchange site.
Colorado courts decide parenting issues on the best interests of the child, so a calm, documented record serves you far better than retaliation. Our overview of Colorado child custody laws explains how judges evaluate each parent’s conduct.
Can unpaid child support affect custody later?
Not directly. Unpaid support is enforced as a money judgment, and courts allocate parenting time based on the child’s best interests rather than the payment ledger. A parent’s broader pattern of reliability can matter in a best-interests analysis, but nonpayment alone does not cost a parent their court-ordered time.
Use the Right Enforcement Process, Not Self-Help
Whichever side of this dispute you are on, the parent who uses the correct motion wins the procedural high ground. Johnson Law Group can give you a clear read on which enforcement track fits your situation, prepare the filings, and keep a support dispute from becoming a parenting time crisis.
Our family law attorneys handle support and parenting time enforcement from offices across Colorado, with virtual consultations available. Schedule a free, no-pressure consultation today.
Sources
[2] C.R.S. § 14-10-122 – Modification and Enforcement of Child Support Orders, Colorado Revised Statutes, Colorado General Assembly | https://leg.colorado.gov/laws/colorado-revised-statutes
[3] Colorado Child Support Services – Frequently Asked Questions | https://childsupport.colorado.gov/about/faq
[4] Enforce Court Orders – Self-Help, Colorado Judicial Branch | https://www.coloradojudicial.gov/self-help/enforce-court-orders
[5] JDF 1418 – Verified Motion Concerning Parenting Time Disputes, Colorado Judicial Branch | https://www.coloradojudicial.gov/sites/default/files/2024-05/JDF1418.pdf