A spouse generally cannot stop a Colorado divorce by refusing to respond. After valid service and the response period stated in the summons, the filing spouse can ask the court for default-related relief, and the case moves forward without the silent spouse’s input. [1]
Default is not automatic approval of everything requested, though. Notice, financial disclosures, proof, and judicial review still apply, which is why completing each step correctly matters more than moving fast. Silence slows a divorce down only when the petitioner does not know what to file next.
Does my spouse have to agree to the divorce?
No. Colorado is a no-fault state, and a court can dissolve the marriage when one spouse states that it is irretrievably broken under C.R.S. § 14-10-106. [2] Your spouse’s consent is not required to end the marriage, and refusing to participate does not preserve it.
Non-response only changes how the case proceeds. Instead of a negotiated or litigated resolution, the court can eventually enter orders based on the record you provide.
What counts as valid service in Colorado?
Default relief is only available after your spouse was properly notified of the case. Colorado requires formal service of the petition and summons, usually by personal service through the sheriff or a private process server, or by a signed waiver or acceptance of service. [3]
If your spouse cannot be located after diligent efforts, the court can authorize alternative service, including service by publication. A Colorado divorce attorney can make sure service is completed and documented correctly, because a defective service record is the most common reason default requests fail.
Notice checklist before you request default:
- The petition and summons were served by an approved method, or a signed waiver or acceptance of service is on file.
- The return of service shows the date, place, and manner of service.
- Any alternative service, such as publication, was authorized by court order first.
- The response deadline was calculated from the actual service date shown in the record.
What is the actual response deadline?
The controlling deadline is the one printed on the summons in your case, so read it carefully. For most people served inside Colorado, the response is due within 21 days after service; for service outside Colorado or by publication, the window is typically 35 days.
Court orders in your case can also adjust deadlines. If the response period has not run yet, the case simply waits; nothing about default begins until the deadline passes.
What can the petitioner request after no response?
Once the deadline passes with no response filed, you can ask the court to enter default under the Colorado Rules of Civil Procedure, specifically C.R.C.P. 55, and to proceed toward final orders. The typical sequence looks like this.
- Confirm the service record. File the return of service or waiver proving when and how your spouse was served.
- Request entry of default. File a motion asking the court to note that no response was filed within the deadline.
- Complete your disclosures. File the sworn financial statement and required financial disclosures, plus proposed permanent orders for the court to review.
- Add parenting and support documents if you have children. A proposed parenting plan and child support worksheet are still required.
- Attend the final hearing or submit decree paperwork. The court reviews the record, and no decree can enter until at least 91 days after your spouse was served or joined the case.
Does default mean the court grants everything I asked for?
No. Default removes your spouse’s objections; it does not remove the court’s obligations. The judge must still divide property and debt equitably, apply the maintenance factors, and set parenting time and child support under the best-interests and guideline statutes.
Expect the court to scrutinize your paperwork more closely, not less, because no one is on the other side to test it. Requests that are one-sided, unsupported, or incomplete are the fastest way to turn a simple default into months of corrections.
| Question | Default path | Contested path |
|---|---|---|
| Who provides the facts? | The petitioner’s filings and disclosures | Both spouses, through disclosures and discovery |
| How are terms set? | The court reviews the petitioner’s proposed orders against Colorado law | Negotiation, mediation, or a contested hearing |
| Timeline floor | No decree before 91 days after service or joinder | Same 91-day floor, but disputes usually extend it |
| Risk to watch | Defective service or incomplete disclosures delaying the decree | Cost and conflict escalating as issues multiply |
If you are weighing what non-response means against an actively disputed case, our overview of contested and uncontested divorce in Colorado explains how each path actually resolves.
What financial, support, and parenting proof is still required?
Colorado requires complete financial disclosures in every divorce, including default cases. Plan to file a sworn financial statement with supporting documents, and to show the court how your proposed property division and any maintenance request line up with the statutes.
When children are involved, the court will not sign a decree without a parenting plan and a child support calculation it can review. The child’s best interests standard applies whether or not the other parent shows up.
Can a default be set aside?
Yes, in some circumstances. A spouse who missed the deadline can ask the court to set aside a default for good cause, and courts weigh reasons like defective service, excusable neglect, and how quickly the spouse acted after learning of the case.
This is why a clean service record and honest, complete filings protect you. A default built on shortcuts is the kind most vulnerable to being undone.
What if my spouse participates later?
A spouse who responds before default is entered will usually be allowed into the case, and the divorce proceeds as a standard contested matter. That is not a bad outcome; it simply means issues get resolved through negotiation or hearings instead of by default.
A late-arriving spouse who then fights everything can change the tone of the case quickly. If that is where things are heading, our guide to high-conflict divorce in Colorado covers the strategies that keep an uncooperative spouse from stalling your case.
Get Help Completing Service and Default Steps Correctly
The difference between a stalled case and a finished one is usually procedure: valid service, complete disclosures, and decree paperwork the court can approve. Johnson Law Group can review where your case stands in the Colorado divorce process, give you a clear read on what the court still needs, and handle the default steps so silence does not stall your future.
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Sources
[2] C.R.S. § 14-10-106 – Dissolution of Marriage, Colorado Revised Statutes, Colorado General Assembly | https://leg.colorado.gov/laws/colorado-revised-statutes
[3] How to Serve Court Papers in Divorce and Custody Cases – Colorado Judicial Branch | https://www.coloradojudicial.gov/how-serve-court-papers-divorce-and-custody-cases